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Building Your Self-Esteem

Building your self-esteem is crucial for living a happy, healthy life. Unfortunately, many of us suffer from poor self-esteem and a lack of “inner value”.

If you’re in this boat, then you don’t need to despair! In this exciting post you are going to learn 3 effective methods for building self-esteem.

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Just when you thought that it was impossible to begin building your self-esteem, the following knockout tips arrived to save the day.

Visualize a More Confident You

One of the most effective methods for building self-esteem is to harness the incredible power of visualization.

I have written about visualization many times before on this site, but I will stress time and time again the amazing power that creating a positive mental image can unlock.

There is no method more effective for creating higher levels of self-worth than imagining yourself just the way you want to be. Your visualization, however, needs to be meaningful and applied in a dedicated fashion.

Don’t just close your eyes and pretend for a few seconds that you are more confident and have greater self-esteem. Instead you must meditate and intensely focus on the sensations, emotions, and energy into visualizing yourself exactly the way you want to be.

Correct visualization is the single most important method you can use for building your self-esteem, so it’s important to get this right!  If you really want some help building your self-esteem, you need to consider a very powerful visualisation program called Mind Movies – this program will show you how to become successful in building your self esteem.

List Your Insecurities

As a rule, poor self-esteem and a lack of confidence is caused by insecurity (or more specifically, a whole raft of internalised insecurities). In order to grow your self-confidence you need to tackle these insecurities head on.

Basically, there will be a whole load of things in your life that you feel insecure about – perhaps it’s your weight, your job, your hair style – and the secret to becoming a better you is to take these insecurities and smash them into a thousand pieces.

To tackle your insecurities you need to start by writing down everything that you “don’t like” about yourself; be as honest as possible here.

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Next you must go through this list and sort out the things you can change from the things over which you have no influence.

For example, you can improve your diet and start exercising to lose weight, but it isn’t really possible to change your height.

Develop Strategies to Overcome Your Insecurities

The final phase in building your self-esteem is to turn your list of personal insecurities into a bunch of actionable strategies for overcoming them.

Imagine that one of your insecurities is the fact that you don’t feel confident with your current fashion sense; to combat this you would outline the EXACT steps you need to follow in order to fix this problem.

For example, you might consult a stylist or style blog first, then throw out or recycle your old clothes, and then finally buy new ones.

The most important thing here is that you develop a usable strategy for building self-esteem, and that you take action.

To recap quickly, you have learned three effective methods for building your self-esteem. Start by harnessing the amazing power of visualization to see yourself the way you want to be seen by other people.

Next, you must list your insecurities and obstacles to really being successful at building your self-esteem. Finally, you need to develop strategies to overcome your insecurities. (A lot more to come about this) !

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  • Lilila

    Self-confidence is about balance. At one extreme, we have people with low self-confidence. At the other end, we have people who may be overconfident.

    • That is so true Lilila – sometimes I move between both extremes, and I am still learning how to stay in the middle so that I have a sense of balance in my life. Life is a journey, so they say.

  • Hairstyle

    Goal setting is probably the most important activity that you can learn in order to improve your self-esteem.

    • Setting goals is also about planning your day, or week or life. Setting goals gives you something to aim for, to get out of bed each morning and strive to do or achieve something. Without goals, you’re not really doing too much, your’e simply existing. That’s why setting goals in life is so important. Thanks hairstyle.

  • Ines

    Low self-esteem can really negatively affect virtually every facet of your life, including your relationships, your job and your health. But you can take steps to boost your self-esteem, even if you’ve been harboring a poor opinion of yourself since childhood.

    • Low self esteem affects everyone from time to time.
      If you follow the tips in my article, your low self esteem will become a thing of the past in a very short time.